Well no, i don't wanna spend my whole life with somebody who is activly an Alcoholic. I mean honestly no.
The question is just, when it is time to give up, when is it time to leave him.
I know i can not spend my whole life hoping, but right now i have some hope because he tried to get help. I mean he is that kinda Alcoholic, who at least knows that he is, and who wants to quit, but can't do it right now for some reason. Talking doesn't help, that what everybody says. But then i think, i watched some intervention shows on tv, and hey listen, they are talking to the addict and some really get sober.
I mean, i read a lot about Alcoholism, and to really understand what addicts go through, u have to be one, i guess. But why is everybody saying that there is no help. When they go to rehab, they have alot of groups and talking, so why is it imposible to get him to rehab, by telling him. Arggghhh,...i get now totally confused and lost.