And sorry, when my English is not the best, its my second language
Your English is fine sprman. I would not be able to express myself like you have in another language.
Is he in the US Military? They will treat him, I was treated inpatient for six weeks. He can be discharged if he gets the treatment and then goes back to drinking.
Well, that is what was going on when I went to treatment. Either you got with the program, which was abstinence, or you got out of the Army.
I want to quit, when I am ready to do so and not because, u or my family tells me to.
This is true, he will not quit until he is ready.
Anything you say or do, or anything his family says or does will probably not have much effect. The best you can do is nothing.
Give him nothing, do not speak to him, do not let him live with you, do not drive him anywhere, and especially do not give him money.
You have no control here, alcohol is controlling him, and an alcoholic is making you miserable.
Beth