Originally Posted by
sprman24 
Well i have one more question: When i read to alot of threads here, the most people seem to leave their friends, BF, husbands, wife,...etc.
Welcome!!!
The fact of the matter is-and understand
I'm not saying that this will be the case with your bf-is that most addicts/alcoholics
do not recover.
So the choice for us is pretty easy-
or should be-and we leave.
Of course, some us have a harder time with that decision.
Last thought, they aren't 'rules' they're called
boundaries, and they're simply to protect ourselves.