Hi Sprman24
to SR. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hope that you will take some time to read the stickies that can be found at the top of this forum. Also, have you ever heard of AlAnon? AlAnon is a support group for the friends and family of, or anyone else affected by, an alcoholic. It sounds like you would benefit from going to AlAnon.
It is difficult when someone who lives with us is a problem drinker and refuses to get help or help himself. Do you know what you want from this relationship with this person?