Guess I am just feeling sad that this is the end of our relationship.
Yes but look at all the NEW relationships you are forming on SR
One day at a time
CourageousCrane. Just keep bringing your focus back to today, right now. The Serenity Prayer helped me immensely when I first got into Recovery. Do you know it? It appears at the bottom of all of my posts.
And I feel ANGRY that we just talked and I told him that I loved him, but his drinking kills me, and his only response was "so come hug me!"
Which part makes you angry? That you love him? That you told him you loved him? Or that he completely ignores what your needs are in this relationship?
and his only response was "so come hug me!
This is a very childish manipulation. I know a guy who would say this in these circumstances. I truly believe he has an incurable personality disorder.
I hope you come back and tell us how the AlAnon meeting went! I'm excited for you.