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blwninthewind. Thanks for sharing. I say good riddance. What a blessing in disguise. About this:
I put up w/ all kinds of crazy crap for almost 20 yrs and stood by your side...and now your sober and decide u don't love me and need more serenity ??? I was fine to cook, clean and take care of you for all that time. I put up w/ all the worry and cleaning up the messes you created by your drinking and irresponsible behavior but now...NOW...your sober and say "I'm finally feeling" and your bailing out????
The past is past. It's done. You did what you thought was right at the time, all these years, and now we are in today. But honestly, it was never your job to clean up all his messes and you have BIGGER and BETTER things to do with all your energy and efforts than continue to be with someone who does not know how to, or want to, be an equal partner. I think this just provides you opportunities.