This post is full of links to great resources for those in abusive relationships:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...out-abuse.html
I'd also suggest you call the National Domestic Violence Hotline:
1-800-799-7233
If he goes through your phone to see who you call, most cell phones have a way to erase a single number from the history. Check before you try, or borrow someone else's phone, or even use a pay phone. But please call, they can help you figure out what to do, and where to go.
You are not alone. And you do
not deserve to be treated this way.