It is amazing that every friend you have always has some sort of problem or flaw in there eyes...when there sober there good friends...lol. But when my XAGF would drink she would have to be the center of attention and embarrassing. And that alone is what drives you away from friends and family. I think we are so embarrassed by there behavior that we hide them from everyone...and alot of times im glad I did. They love to belittle everyone you know and enjoy...its a crazy wild behavior.