he went thru a similar phase the first two weeks or so after our vow of sobriety, but then things got better and we were doing things...going to movies, walks with the dogs, the museums, shops, christmas as absolutley wonderful..now its been a month after his relapse...is the second time at sobriety harder than the first? i could handle this situation if it passes as it did before, but i CANT handle his behavior if it doesn't change soon...