Hello littleking!!!
First: Congratulations on your sober time!!!!!!
What a fantastic accomplishment!!
On this side of the equation, we learn what we like to call the 3 C's
You did not
cause his addiction.
You cannot
control is addiction.
You cannot
cure him.
He will have to truly want to change his life for himself and no amount of begging, pleading, arguing, yelling, bargaining, blackmailing will work......
I hope that you will stick around SR, read around the threads for a bit, and try to make a plan for yourself, your continued recovery, and what sort of behavior you are willing (or more importantly NOT willing) to accept around you.
Hugs and welcome,
HG