Wow, that was a fast response! I am feeling much better, as of yesterday, even prior to her seemingly change in attitude. Maybe the 75 degrees and sunny weather helped a bit as well
Talking to the counselor helped me as well. The boys and I have got into a mommyless routine, and I think that may be part of it too.
Thanks again, I will post up news as it comes. Maybe I will be that lucky success story, but I do realize that we have a long way to go, and it will be a slippery slope at best. Her sisters and close good friends have been talking to her more than me. It seems to be helping.