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Old 02-02-2011, 10:33 AM
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kilt
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Atlanta, GA
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I have learned that if your boyfriend has a civil relationship with his ex that is a good sign. Even better if they are friends, not every day of the week kind of friends but I like it if they talk a couple times a year or if I can meet her. One guy I dated flipped out when his ex showed up and he refused to let me talk to her. When I went and spoke with her directly, she was perfectly nice but from her I learned he was a cheater and that was later supported by others and he eventually cheated on me. If people are eager to paint others as the bad guy or not allow you to speak with people in their past I would call that a red flag.
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