Oh if only cyrano...
Back in '95, when he was obsessing about my ex-bf(who didn't even live anywhere close to me at the time) I should've broken it off then, but no..silly codie me(because I was very much so a codie even then, before he started drinking at all) thought it was my fault for not being a virgin for him, for having dared kissed someone before him.
I would love to shake my 19 year old self and tell me to catch a clue, go to college and get the hell away from this loser.
Oh, and those answers are largely relevant to me too, In particular all the 'by yourself' ones. Particularly meaningful since he always used to tell me "I'll never leave you". Unfortunately he checked out years ago.