She called tonight and I swear it's like going in circles talking to her. I can tell she is trying to manipulate everything. She comes home the 14th (Valentines Day of all days). She wants me to pick her up with the kids. She wants to spend time with the kids. I still have no idea what her plan is when she leaves the treatment center. I know I need to establish some boundaries but it's confusing since there is much to be worked through since I just signed divorce papers.
She is trying to make me feel like a terrible person for doing what I am doing. I want to keep things civil but every time I talk to her and makes me want to institute scorched earth policy. I have been involved in Al Alon of and on for several years so I plan to try and find a good meeting near me.