I hope that I can follow through with what you have done (minus the 58 years old thing, I don't want to be that old anytime soon, I plan on being a grandparent by that point.
Ha, no kidding, at 49 when she was born, I was a few decades behind the rest of the herd.
I've quit drinking, quit smoking, eat healthy, pump iron, (stronger now than in my 20's) take vitamins and supplements and monitor my blood pressure constantly. It's naturally low, and our standing joke, each time I measure it at the pharmacy is, "I'm gonna be dancing at your wedding".
That's my main goal in life, to live to a healthy, ripe old age, and continue to attempt to "make all this up to her" somehow.
BTW, if your sense of humor is still intact after all this, I'm not going to worry about you. Tons of healing in laughter, it's part of our self-care routine to rent "funny" movies every weekend, if nothing else is happening.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote