Originally Posted by
MarlinVX ...A husband and wife are a team, you succeed as a team, you fail as a team. There are no sides to pick within the marriage...
I think this only works when you don't have kids. After that the rules change. Someone needs to represent them and in your case, that's you. I admire your determination to help your wife but when she's passed out and your 4 year old is jumping on her to wake her up, it's no longer a team thing.