Originally Posted by
Shellcrusher 
Don't hang yourself out to dry. My AW has spent 2.5 years of my life. What's that worth?
I agree. I had to submit all of my monthly expenses and once you actually calculate the monthly cost of stuff either directly or indirectly related to her illness, it's nuts. I have a good lawyer so I am sure it will be fair deal. I am just at the point I want to move on and rebuild.