My XAH is the same. If you asked him, his life consists of a series of bad relationships with horrible and vindictive women, all hell-bent on using him. I used to think he was just a victimized person, but now that time has passed, I realized that he's inherently misogynistic. When it comes right down to it, the woman he blames above all others is his mother.
I made sure to remind myself that a man who portrays himself as constantly being victimized by women (and who has an underlying hatred for women in general) really DOESN'T MAKE A GOOD PARTNER.
