I want a relationship with my AH but not at the expense of me and I want my children to learn that for themselves so with the best I know how I am loving, guiding and parenting my children and letting my AH give them whatever love he can at this time.
This is just my experience, I hope you find something helpful from it.
Sorry so long, I tend to reflect a lot, but this is me and as long as I work on myself and not try to get in someone else's business, it's ok.
Thank you dancingnow. I appreciate your answers and how you get from A to B.
I reflect a lot too.