Originally Posted by
tjp613 
Her problems are not your problems.
Thanks for the update and we're here for you.
They are my problems. A husband and wife are bound together, both spiritually and financially. She is a mother, I am a father, that makes her problems my problems. She is my wife, that makes her problems my problems, she is also part owner of our debt as well as our savings, that makes her problems my problems. I have invested a decade of my life, 1/3 of the time I have been alive, to her, that makes her problems, my problems.
I understand what you are saying, but this cut and run BS is too shady for me to blindly follow. I have an obligation to her, and I will fullfill it as long as I can without endangering my children. I owe her that much.
I owe our marriage that much.
Please, keep posting, I read everything, and think about all of the posts, but I will not blindly follow, no more than we should take the pills or advice a doctor gives you, just because they are a doctor. I am not a sheep.