I'm no psychiatrist but.. this man has issues coming out of his kazoo. I fear alcohol is not the only one.
Being a psychiatrist from the school of hard knocks, I must agree with tallulahs astute diagnosis of multiple issues from the kazoo.
Please get some help for yourself. You must find out why you would spend more than twenty minutes with someone who does not like you, and has kazoo issues.
You seem like a lovely perceptive young woman. Listen to your gut. I am telling you from the hard knocks school, the gut does not lie.
He will not change, just get sicker.
Beth