Originally Posted by
tallulah 
I might be alone in this.. but I want to get you as far away from this fella as humanly possible *hugs*
oh no, you are not alone in this.
my first ex was like this. for one, i could never, ever, measure up because he hated women.
for two, this made him an asshat of the tallest order.
so, you do need to get away from anyone who does not love you exactly as you are. you are imperfectly perfect and will find your match.
now, it feels like you are an audience to his drunken megalomaniac rantings.
for me, it did wear me down.
please get help for you.
Beth