Originally Posted by
duqld1717 
This may make everyone laugh...it makes me laugh...This was sort of my wakeup call. I asked him last week what his idea of his perfect mate would be. His answer was: Someone who likes to get really drunk, a doctor or a lawyer so I dont have to work, and someone that doesnt nag me. He never mentioned anyting about personality, morals, beliefs etc like a normal person would. I knew then and there that I was dealing with a HUGE PROBLEM and that was him.
Translation: He wants someone he can be drink buddies with; who will get as wasted and as fugged up as him; someone who can still hold down a good job, earning good money, to support his lifestyle; someone who will put up with his BS, either by being as fugged up as him or being oblivious to how fugged up he is.
Does that sound like you?
I agree, he's told you exactly who he is. Do you still want to give this person your precious life?
Tx