I am still trying to figure out the things that I like.
StarCat, I can relate to this. I think I'm still in a stage of trying to sort through what I like doing and what I did because of
him.
Like -- I like working out and staying in shape. But towards the end of my marriage, my working out wasn't because I liked it, but because if I gained even an ounce of weight, he would complain about how fat I was. So now I'm having a hard time finding the joy in my workouts, because they're connected in my mind to my desperate trying to stay skinny to please him.
I think these things take time. And we don't have to be in a hurry.