hi NBK and welcome to the forum!!!
We're all 'smart' women and men here.
I'm so glad you've decided to join us.
Because now - you're not alone.
As long as you have computer access - we're here.
YOu sound ready to make a plan.
Do you have f2f support? (face to face)
that makes a world of difference
during this time.
I hope you've read the stickies at the top of the forum
and maybe think about contacting alanon?
there's a world of experience here at SR
and someone is here on the forum 24/7 it seems.
I hope you'll stick around
the others will be along in a bit
this is a pretty hopping forum
you needn't wait long.
again - welcome!