Oh I am so sorry you are going through this. Must be so hard to deal with your sons alcoholism and then your husbands enabling too.
But it sounds like you have reallty educated yourself on this 'family disease' and that you already know that you cant 'love' someone into rehab. (IF ONLY!)
I hope that you can talk your husband round into going to a meeting maybe, or reading some material at least - anything that might shift a gear somewhere y'know?
I havent been in your particular situation but just wanted to say welcome and you will get lots of support here, everyone has a story here, some will be strikingly familiar to yours and others you will surely identify with in some way. you are not alone!
