peace--
thanks for the advice. i think i am going to get a few meetings under my belt and then sit down with hubby and have a talk.
i know the living out of state thing isnt going to work and eventually son will be back. for all i know, that might be what all the calls and texting are about already. when im approached about him (he will have hubby ask me if he can move back in), i need to be prepared and need to be strong on my stance.