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Old 01-29-2011, 10:19 AM
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suki44883
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I'm thinking of opening my own savings account, and putting away the same amount of money he spends on alcohol each month, so that if I do need to leave I will have a cushion.

That is an excellent idea. Sometimes, just having a plan in place makes us feel a little more secure. Do whatever is necessary to take care of yourself.

I think I should talk to him soon, just lay it all out on the table. No ultimatum, but just tell him how I'm feeling. Or do I just accept it?

I don't think there's anything wrong with laying it all out on the table, but I wouldn't expect much to come of it. If it makes you feel better though, then go ahead.

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