the 3 C's
you did not cause this
you can not control this
and you can not CURE this...
he has to do this on his own terms...but for YOU, can you get to a AL ANON meeting? can family members help for babysitting...?
please read the stickys up top...and read and read some more...we are all here with same or different situations...take what you want, and leave the rest WE all have different views and different strengths and courage (at the time)
God bless you and your child(ren) and may you find some peace