I guess in my head are 2 couples that met, fell in love and married after 6 months. From what they tell me they are happily married for over 10 years. My cousin and a friend. Both are younger couples with kids. I thought we were like them, met fell in love and we would get married soon. My fantasy land stuff. What is real neither women married a man in recovery. So I am not them. Reality check.
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That's some very good insight right there. (((hugs)))