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Old 01-26-2011, 12:03 PM
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seekingcalm
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Welcome, I am sorry you are going through a difficult time, but glad you have found us.

Reading your post, it seems clear that you want things you cannot have with your boyfriend right now. And he is struggling with his own issues. Recovering alcoholics are not necessarily stressed by so many things, so it's hard to answer your question. My exabf is much calmer about everything currently after 1 year in a program of recovery.

Having said that, you are the most important one here. Take care of yourself and think carefully about what you need and want in a relationship today. Tomorrow is an unkown. Please don't plan a future on tomorrow, for you or for your unborn child.

My best to you. Keep reading and posting. This is a wonderful, supportive place to be.
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