I can relate to most of what you said, your not alone.
My A walks in the door and I tense up, not knowing what his mood will bring. Not knowing weather he is going to try and hug/kiss me or yell at me for spending money..on groceries.
My parents have even mentioned it to me that I don't act myself around him.
It's not easy to work through the resentments and I really like the 'hurricane' statement
