Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
At this point, anyway, it appears you cannot "be" anything in terms of a relationship with this man, except as it concerns your parenting obligations. He needs his own support system, without you in it.
I think that is true for me and I am trying to figure out how to express that to him. I was just curious what types of boundaries different people have set with xA's they still associate with for parenting.