Eye Opener
OMG!!! I am so sorry for you. It's so hard to believe that she would go back after being clean for so long, going to church with you, getting another chance at your marriage. Man this stuff is so hard to hear!!
My husband is sober about 100 days (so he says). We are separated now. Wants to reconcile, work things out, done drinking, done with porn going to meetings 2-3 x day etc. etc. but here is the big clue that he has a long way to go towards figuring things out---he said to me - "Now as soon as you straighten out, things are going to be great."
I almost fell out of my chair!! He walked out on me and our three little ones aged 7, 5, and 16 mos and has given no financial support, not working, and is living with mom and dad 1000 miles away who are financially supporting him 100%, cooking his dinner, washing his clothes. Even bought him a car!
Anyway, it's so hard to let go of my husband bc I know that I love him and I believe he desperately loves me and the kids, but we always come behind his addictions. He has never been physically unfaithful to me, and that to me was a really awesome thing to be able to say about us, you know we have had a lot of problems, but never infidelity, but then that's what you thought too........
Thank you for putting your story out there. Makes me really think...HARD
I'll pray for you.
Hailee