Originally Posted by
jayscott 
...she laughed and said that she's always controlled me. That I've always been "her puppet." That she finds it hilarious that I'll have to pay her alimony.
The sad part is that I recognize that I was being controlled, and for a long time. I just never thought that she would admit it out loud.
Domestic and emotional abuse take many forms, and abuse of women toward men is not on the "radar" much of society.
I'd just like to point out that this attitude, these behaviors are abusive.
Abuse doesn't have to mean being beaten black and blue, cowering in a corner bloodied up.
Change is in the air, now, and your son will have an entirely different life, now, due to the changes. You have acted as responsible father in the
highest capacity.
Sending encouragement,
CLMI