That sounds exactly like what alcoholics do. They love tossing things into your court so they have a reason to snap back, be upset, point the finger away from themselves, cast blame on you and basically not take responsibility for themselves.
I for one think the world is full of too much sugar coating. If I don't miss you, I don't. If I do, I do. Either way you cut it, if asked the same question, I'll give you a straight up answer.
My AW has spent plenty of time doing and saying mean things to me while hiding behind a bottle. Now, the last thing I want to do, is hide behind my concern for her interpretation of my simple answer.
No.