Oh I've asked him to get help, and he said he's not an addict...an addict doesn't look like him. Honestly I've never really been around them for me to know. He said that they don't eat...he eats, he said they stink, he smells good and have really good hygiene, they're sloppy, he's not...he's too anal, they can't hold a job, he has a job...I'm thinking he's a functioning addict? He said that it hurts him to know that I think of him that way. Manipulation at its best. Oh and he said that addicts get so mean and paranoid...unlike him, he's so nice I can't tell anymore. I'm in a tornado of confusion. I just don't want this feeling of wondering if he is or not. I want to get to a place where I just don't care.