however I was under the impression that it was a meeting for me alone and not for us both?
hmm, I think it is for you, the loved one of an addict, but technically he could go with you. I guess the question is: do you want him to go?
I did not want my husband (now ex) to come to meetings with me, I would not feel safe sharing.
Maybe he could find an NA meeting.
but, if you want the company for your first meeting and you are comfortable with that, then bring him with you.
Ah, I am sounding awful wishy washy. Sorry. I had trust issues with my ex by then too.
sigh.......
Maybe I will have something brilliant to say in the morning.
Thank you for saying you appreciated the airplane story.
I love it too, I first heard it here at SR.
Okay now I am just babbling.
LOL
I will be back in the morning.
Beth