I agree with whereisthisgoin. I'm in such a similar situation - hope to post my on thread soon.
All I can say is it's been a week since I moved out of the bedroom and a week since his last relapse ... we've been married for 21 years - no kids. I'm almost numb with trying to sort out my decision.
My "thoughts" are all over the place and I have to CONSTANTLY remind myself "this decision is aobut me". I worry about hurting others, loosing close family ties, etc. we both have good families.
This decision is about YOU. Our codie side begins to worry about everyone else and everything else. Do what's right for you ...
Hang in there
