Sarah & Callie -
The last year that I stayed with my now ex Ah -
I asked him to please don't tell me that your sorry or apologize for any more relaspes. Just let your actions and recovery speak for your true amends. I told him for me, I have learned that is healthier and in my best interest to base my decisions on another persons actions not words or best intentions.
He said "well then fine - I'll just show you!!" and he did.
He continued to relapse, lie, steal and all the other behaviors that were unhealthy for me have in my life.
Which is why he is now my ex ah.
I never could control him or his disease but thru the help of my HP and a recovery program I could make my life better and healthier for me!
Thanks for the input from everyone!!
PINK HUGS,
Rita