Well, since I feel this thread was created some what to help me, I would like to share my experience in hopes of maybe helping some one else. So here are all the ones I can remember off the top of my head....
1) I couldn't take all the arguing
2) I was spending too much time with you and the kids and not doing what I needed to for my recovery
3) You always bring up things I did from the past, you can't ever just forgive and move on (never mind he can never say sorry and TRUELY realize the amount of hurt he caused)
4) I shouldn't have went around _____ (any place that comes to his mind) OR I should've never went to visit_____(any person he thinks he can blame for making him want to get high)
5) You don't have enough trust in me
6) You were going to leave me anyway so what difference does it make
7) I thought you were going to call the police so I figured I mine as well get one more in before they came looking for me!!! (yes this is really true)
Wow, after thinking about all the things I have heard that are NEVER his fault I am sitting here saying to myself, Gee you sure do know how to pick' em
