FormerDoormat - if you see my previous posts you'll see, that I changed. I have a clear boundary now and he knows he can't cross it or that's it for us. The ball's in his court now. I'm good and happy with myself. Don't mean to sound snotty or anything, but I truly am comfortable with myself, my life and choices. He has yet to get there and I'm there for him should he need my help.
And yeah, Alanon... I don't think I'll warm up to them. I'll try to go again, but now him going to his meetings and to his counseling is definitely our priority and with the baby and only one car - we have to choose. Also, I get to watch lame movies we'd never watch together when he's at meetings, so it's a win-win.
