Originally Posted by JenT1968 View Post
:I'd set up a system where son has to ask you if he wants to sleepover in your time, and dad in his time. No exceptions, whatever the other parent says about those times don't count."
Thumper: "I'd do this exactly. I'd also eliminate all trading of days or adjusting visitation time based on time spent with friends. That is just asking for misunderstanding and complications."
I think I am going to type up a contract so my son and myself can sign stating that he has to ask me if he wants to sleepover during my time, no exceptions and that whatever dad says about those times doesn't count. Even though we have spoken this rule aloud, having a tangible contract will make him accountable and maybe remember.