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Old 01-14-2011, 10:41 PM
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TakingCharge999
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Please listen to the wise words here. They all come from direct experience.

I had a boyfriend like that, very short story, no kids, nothing really, yet 2 years out from that I am still recovering.

Please don't put the kid in danger. Verbena said what my therapist says, "what does he bring to the table?" now, I would say, confusion and tension.

Also anyone who starts recovery is advised to stay away from relationships at least a year. If he rushes, he is not following advice. He has to give you your space (recovering or not). It has been a long road for him already, it will be a while for him to come back to the real world, it won't happen overnight.

Hugs!
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