I think AA tries to teach those guys that they may eventually be in social situations where there is alcohol, but there is no time limit, and they certainly don't expect it right away.
For your guy's perspective: In his recovery, his path, he has discovered that a living situation is uncomfortable with alcohol in it, then by all means, he should have a booze-free house.
However, you are most comfortable having something around the house, and you have no problem with it whatsoever. You should be allowed to have that.
Therefore, I do not recommend cohabitation for you two at this time, if ever.