hi Wicked -
I have not done the Alanon 12 step program.
But - beginning last year, I 'overlaid' the aa 12 steps
and replaced the word 'love'.
that ... was a BODACIOUS fourth step.
This was something I did on my own
so there's been no fifth step.
My sponsor and I are going to do the steps together
this spring
when the weather
dries up the roads
so we can make the 120 mile trip from her town
to mine.
or visa versa.
I apologize - did not mean to hijack the thread.