Shining Stars, Is your son's SN program in a public school or Head Start perhaps? Find out if they'll transport your sn child to the Alanon Daycare program the one or two days weekly you'll be attending meetings.
My program used to provide transportation for a three year old to meet his grandmother at a Senior Center where she ate lunch four days a week. They'd walk the two blocks to her apartment after her lunch.
Do you have a friend or relative who could do this for you?