Step Four is a tough one. And, somehow, one I feel I need to repeat more often than the rest.
Because, according to RAXH,
everything is my fault, it is hard for me to take personal inventory in an honest way. I keep pushing away the things he places squarely on my shoulders to the point where I would have a hard time recognizing if he
did stumble upon a point just because I refuse to give him a single recognition of being right in any way... (now, there's a bit of moral inventory right there, right?
)
And isn't that just part of the whole codie challenge? To sort out what is our own and what belongs to other people, whether it's feelings or guilt or responsibility?