thanks wicked, your previous post was a little hurtful and I got a feeling you didn't understand me.
When it comes to the girl, I know it wasn't hard for her to move on, she said coming into it she knew it was a one time deal, although she wouldn't mind doing it again. She was doing another guy the next day, so really, I am not worried about her feelings because for her it's not a big deal at all. And I don't mean it in a bad way, those are the choices she's making for herself and isn't really ashamed of them. She's a substance abuser too and doesn't think twice about those things. I can't believe women like this exist, it's beyond me.