I'm not interested in "saving" him. His doctor told him he will die within two years and even that's not enough. I'm happy to be free of this BS and I just feel like if that's what he wants to Godspeed but leave me out. But I feel like he was trying to manipulate me into an exchange where he could turn it so that now it's my fault that he's still drinking. In hindsight, I think he did that a lot behind my back to his friends. I guess the best I can do at this point is just don't respond?